{"id":15640,"date":"2019-07-10T05:04:49","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T03:04:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.whisker.lv\/?p=15640"},"modified":"2019-07-20T07:16:13","modified_gmt":"2019-07-20T05:16:13","slug":"greta-un-cukurs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.whisker.lv\/ru\/laimigas-astes\/greta-un-cukurs\/","title":{"rendered":"Greta un Cukurs"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ilzes st\u0101sts.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Greta<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Su\u0146a adopcija no patversmes vienm\u0113r ir nopietns l\u0113mums. Pirmo reizi m\u0113s t\u0101du pie\u0146\u0113m\u0101m 2017. gada august\u0101, kad nenov\u0113r\u0161ami nelika mieru patversmes su\u0146u \u201csludin\u0101jumi\u201d. Tie\u0161i \u0161\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 m\u0113s paman\u012bj\u0101m savu pirmo \u0123imenes suni \u2013 Gretu Jelgavas dz\u012bvnieku patversm\u0113. Dev\u0101mies iepaz\u012bties. Vi\u0146a bija jauna un \u013coti akt\u012bva \u2013 to paman\u012bj\u0101m jau pa\u0161\u0101 s\u0101kum\u0101 un saprat\u0101m, ka esam gatavi!<\/p>\n

Gretas iepriek\u0161\u0113jais dz\u012bvesst\u0101sts mums nebija zin\u0101ms, tik vien, ka vi\u0146ai var\u0113ja b\u016bt apm\u0113ram septi\u0146i m\u0113ne\u0161i. Zin\u0101j\u0101m, ka mums pavisam dr\u012bz j\u0101dodas skoloties (gan pa\u0161iem, gan m\u016bsu su\u0146ub\u0113rnam). Saprat\u0101m, ka Gretai rados noteikti ir k\u0101da Krievu Eiropas laika, kas ir man\u0101ms gan vi\u0146as \u0101r\u0113j\u0101 izskat\u0101, gan rakstura iez\u012bm\u0113s.<\/p>\n

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Bija j\u0101r\u0113\u0137in\u0101s ar to, ka b\u016bs daudz j\u0101str\u0101d\u0101, j\u0101nodarbina vi\u0146a gan fiziski, gan gar\u012bgi. Jau p\u0101ris dienas p\u0113c adopcijas dev\u0101mies kop\u012bg\u0101 pastaig\u0101 pa T\u0113rvetes dabas parku. Paties\u012bb\u0101 m\u0113s teju visur dev\u0101mies kop\u0101. Nenoliedzami m\u016bsu dz\u012bves ritms k\u013cuva v\u0113l intens\u012bv\u0101ks \u2013 daudz vair\u0101k pastaigu pa me\u017eu, vakara skr\u0113jieni u.c. kop\u012bgi izbraucieni.<\/p>\n

Teju katru sestdienu, sv\u0113tdienu dev\u0101mies uz grupu nodarb\u012bb\u0101m, kur Greta atrada sev jaunus draugus, bija entuziasma pilna darboties gan ruden\u012bgi lietainaj\u0101s dien\u0101s, gan ziemas dr\u0113gnum\u0101, snieg\u0101 un ar\u012b siltaj\u0101s dien\u0101s. Vi\u0146as iztur\u012bba un nerimsto\u0161\u0101 ener\u0123ija bija apbr\u012bnojama.<\/p>\n

Pag\u0101ja gads kop\u0161 bij\u0101m pie\u0146\u0113mu\u0161i Gretu un saprat\u0101m, ka v\u0113lamies dot m\u0101jas v\u0113l k\u0101dam astainim. Nevienu konkr\u0113ti v\u0113l noskat\u012bju\u0161i nebij\u0101m, bet dev\u0101mies uz \u201c\u0136epu-\u0136ep\u0101\u201d iepaz\u012bties ar tur m\u012bto\u0161ajiem \u0137epai\u0146iem un iziet pastaig\u0101.<\/p>\n

Cukurs<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Pag\u0101ja k\u0101ds laiks un nejau\u0161i paman\u012bj\u0101m Cukuru k\u0101d\u0101 no adopcijai pied\u0101v\u0101to su\u0146u st\u0101stiem. J\u0101, grib\u0113tos teikt, ka patversm\u0113m un biedr\u012bb\u0101m m\u016bsdien\u0101s ir lieliska iesp\u0113ja pied\u0101v\u0101t dz\u012bvniekiem jaunas m\u0101jas tie\u0161i caur \u0161\u0101diem st\u0101stiem, kas tie\u0161\u0101k\u0101 veid\u0101 non\u0101k pie adres\u0101ta un nereti aizkustina jauno-\u012bsto saimnieku sirdis.<\/p>\n

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T\u0101 notika ar\u012b ar mums, jo nelielais st\u0101sts bija par Iecavas kapos atrasto suni, m\u0113s v\u0113l\u0113j\u0101mies ar vi\u0146u iepaz\u012bties, t\u0101p\u0113c brauc\u0101m s\u0101kum\u0101 kop\u0101 ar Gretu (jo bija ta\u010du svar\u012bgi, lai ar\u012b Greta pie\u0146em otru suni \u2013 galu gal\u0101 vi\u0146iem kop\u0101 j\u0101pavada visa dz\u012bve!), tad kop\u0101 ar meitu (tad vi\u0146ai bija 4 gadi) un n\u0101kam\u0101s dienas jau nesp\u0113j\u0101m Cukuru aizmirst, saprat\u0101m, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir M\u016bs\u0113jais! Dr\u012bz p\u0113c steriliz\u0101cijas ved\u0101m vi\u0146u m\u0101j\u0101s.<\/p>\n

Cukura st\u0101sts bija l\u012bdz galam neskaidrs, bet mums bija skaidrs, ka vi\u0146\u0161 bija pamests apzin\u0101ti un bija ar\u012b piedz\u012bvojis vardarb\u012bbu. Vi\u0146\u0101 bija sl\u0113ptas bailes un neuztic\u0113\u0161an\u0101s, \u012bpa\u0161i \u2013 v\u012brie\u0161iem. Kad bij\u0101m jau visi viens ar otru nedaudz apradu\u0161i, dev\u0101mies skolot Cukuru un bija skaidrs, ka vi\u0146\u0161 k\u0101 kuc\u0113ns br\u012bn\u0101s un ar zin\u0101mu bail\u012bgumu uztver jaunos iespaidus. S\u0101k\u0101m socializ\u0113ties. \u0160is bija \u012bst\u0101kais br\u012bdis, kad v\u0113l nav par v\u0113lu vi\u0146a socializ\u0101cijai un uztic\u012bbas veido\u0161anai ar cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n

S\u0101kum\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 tik \u013coti \u201cpie\u0137\u0113r\u0101s\u201d m\u016bsu \u0123imenei, \u013coti uztrauc\u0101s, kad k\u0101ds aizg\u0101ja un sarg\u0101ja no sve\u0161iniekiem. Tagad jau esam krietnu soli tiku\u0161i t\u0101l\u0101k \u2013 Cukurs labpr\u0101t draudz\u0113jas ar\u012b ar citiem su\u0146iem, priec\u0101jas par kontaktu ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem un aizraut\u012bgi gatavs m\u0101c\u012bties. Cukurs un Greta ir izteikti at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi. Greta ir patst\u0101v\u012bga, bezbail\u012bga, savuk\u0101rt Cukurs \u2013 \u013coti alkst cilv\u0113ka m\u012blest\u012bbas, uzman\u012bbas un gl\u0101stu.<\/p>\n

P\u0113c Cukura pie\u0146em\u0161anas Greta s\u0101kum\u0101 bija nedaudz apvainojusies un k\u013cuva nervoz\u0101ka, nev\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s dal\u012bt uzman\u012bbu, bet cen\u0161amies gan fiziski, gan emocion\u0101li abus nodarbin\u0101t un tad ar\u012b savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bbas un attiec\u012bbas ar p\u0101r\u0113jo pasauli ir mier\u012bg\u0101kas.<\/p>\n

Vai tas ir viegli? N\u0113! Bet tas ir t\u0101 v\u0113rts!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Lai nelieku\u013cotu, j\u0101atz\u012bst, ka tas nav viegli. M\u0113s esam \u013coti piel\u0101goju\u0161i savu dz\u012bves ritmu su\u0146iem, ir j\u0101sp\u0113j visu sapl\u0101not, lai ikdien\u0101 uzman\u012bba pietiktu gan b\u0113rnam, gan dz\u012bvniekiem, gan ar\u012b pa\u0161iem sev. Tom\u0113r tas ir izdar\u0101ms! Visbie\u017e\u0101k izv\u0113lamies vienk\u0101r\u0161i b\u016bt visi kop\u0101 un su\u0146i motiv\u0113 doties piedz\u012bvojumos!<\/p>\n

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Vai m\u0113s zin\u0101j\u0101m, k\u0101ds b\u016bs su\u0146u raksturs un ar k\u0101d\u0101m gr\u016bt\u012bb\u0101m, izaicin\u0101jumiem mums b\u016bs j\u0101saskaras? Dro\u0161vien n\u0113, bet, ko es pavisam noteikti esmu sapratusi dz\u012bv\u0113 kop\u0101 ar su\u0146iem, ir tas, ka ir j\u0101b\u016bt gatavam uz visu! \u012apa\u0161i, ja suns tiek adopt\u0113ts no patversmes, j\u0101saprot, ka kr\u012bzes punkti b\u016bs un j\u0101b\u016bt gatavam nepadoties, bet mekl\u0113t vislab\u0101kos risin\u0101jumus un ce\u013cu uz harmonisk\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n

Jau kop\u0161 agras b\u0113rn\u012bbas esmu bijusi dz\u012bvnieku m\u012blis, atminos, k\u0101 abas ar draudzeni, kad bij\u0101m v\u0113l b\u0113rni, tad par iekr\u0101to naudu neg\u0101j\u0101m pirkt sev na\u0161\u0137us, bet gan uz zooveikalu p\u0113c k\u0101rumiem saviem dz\u012bvniekiem (tolaik mums ab\u0101m bija su\u0146i, man ar\u012b j\u016brasc\u016bci\u0146as un ka\u0137is). T\u0101s ir v\u0113rt\u012bbas, ko priec\u0101jos redz\u0113t ar\u012b sav\u0101 b\u0113rn\u0101, kas piecu gadu vecum\u0101 (kad mums jau ir divi su\u0146i) saka, ka grib\u0113tu, lai n\u0101kamais sun\u012btis, kuru m\u0113s adopt\u0113jam (p\u0113c p\u0101ris gadiem) b\u016btu mazs, vecs un t\u0101ds, kas nevienam citam nepat\u012bk.<\/p>\n

Grib\u0113tu iedro\u0161in\u0101t, lai cilv\u0113ki, kuri zina, ka ir gatavi b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar savu \u010detrk\u0101jaino draugu gan slim\u012bb\u0101, gan vesel\u012bb\u0101, gan priekos un b\u0113d\u0101s (glu\u017ei k\u0101 laul\u012bbu zv\u0113rest\u0101, jo tie\u0161i tik nopietnam l\u0113mumam tam b\u016btu j\u0101b\u016bt) izv\u0113l\u0113tos dot iesp\u0113ju tie\u0161i k\u0101dam m\u012blulim no patversmes, jo apzi\u0146a, ka neesi bijis vienaldz\u012bgs, ka esi k\u0101das dz\u012bv\u012bbi\u0146as dz\u012bvi dar\u012bjis laim\u012bgu, rada milz\u012bgu gandar\u012bjumu un sa\u0146emt\u0101 m\u012blest\u012bba ir neizm\u0113rojama.<\/p>\n

Ilze<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n